Indigo Girls

IndigoLife.jpgLast night, Michelle, Anna, and I joined Wendy and Brent, and dearest darlingest Susan (plus pigeon Sam) at the Koka Booth Amphitheatre in Cary, NC, to see the Indigo Girls. We set up our chairs under some trees at the outdoor event, and I for one enjoyed the whole night. Lots of stuff from the IG’s most recent CD, Poseidon & the Bitter Bug, which is a pretty good CD if you listen only to the acoustic versions of each song.  BTW, Amy and Emily, please don’t bother in the future doing these overly produced studio versions when your real elegance and power come in the two-girls-plus-two-guitars (or mandolins) formula. You don’t need additional instruments; your voices are fabulous all by themselves!

Which I was reminded of again listening to the Girls in concert.  The best part of the night may have been when they returned to the second CD and performed “Kid Fears” using Matt Nathanson (who opened for them) in the Michael Stipe role.  Fantastic … Matt even gesticulated a bit like Michael, so I found him a pleasing, if imperfect, stand in.

Listening to the Indigo Girls remains, for me, a bit like snuggling under a familiar and favorite quilt: there’s something of the hand-made quality about it, something early and real; there’s a familiar smell (lesbian jokes not needed here) that evokes home and comfort (or in my case, college undergrad years and comfort); and there’s a moment of peace that can feel “like every war’s behind us” … that’s not bad for a night under the stars.

From their most recent CD, here’s “Salty South” …

I’d love to see the Girls perform with the Avett Brothers

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Reports from the Writing Retreat

So here’s the thing about a good writing retreat, even if it lasts only a day and a half: you can get a lot done if you try. This past weekend, I managed to get several words out there.  First of all, I spent much of Saturday writing the first chapter for my young adult novel. I’ve struggled to think of how to open the piece, and I like the somewhat formulaic but fun way of having the kids back at school, talking about something seemingly irrelevant, when in walks handsome, mysterious stranger who will be coming to school. Then, we talk about this guy for a while, try to figure him out, all the while learning more about our main characters. And then, stranger gets “date” with protagonist and real fun begins. I also revised the “first date” chapter a bit and enjoyed where it went.

But perhaps the best part of the weekend’s writing was that I finally got the chance to write a draft of my children’s book about Max(imilian Wilde Thing). I’m hopeful that I can get a good artist and a publisher, but of course, I’m completely ignorant of how to publish anything that’s not scholarship.

So if you’re a publisher and you’re wonderfully respectable and you want to publish the best children’s book written in years, just let me know …

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Writing Retreat Weekend!

I’ve kinda been waiting for this weekend for weeks … pretty much ever since I left Atlanta and Julia … so tomorrow morning, bright and early, I’m taking off to Dillsboro, NC, for a weekend in the mountain to write with my favorite Writing Project people. Write, write, write! I can’t wait.

And then, when everyone leaves the retreat on Sunday, I’m staying on until Monday for more writing time and then I’m going to Little Switzerland to hang with Carolinas WPA folks for a couple days for a conference, at which I hope also to do some reading and writing.

Happy times … now, when will I find time to read for my own graduate class next week? Hmmm …

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Reading @ Pan-ray-ray

I never cease to be moderately intrigued by the people I run into at Panera.  This morning, while I’m sitting here reading, a chubby gray-haired man with a Free Will Baptist polo-styled shirt is sitting near me … talking to himself.  A LOT …

He brought his own Ziploc bag of Cheerios to snack on, one of those individual packages of flavored coffee creamer to put in his coffee, and he’s busily at work on something for which used Sweet-n-low packets are playing an integral part. He moves the packets, talks to himself, writes something down on the sheet, talks to himself, moves the packets, talks to himself, writes something down, talks to himself, moves the packets … you get the picture.

It’s mildly entertaining, particularly when he’s pleased with his work and nods his agreement with his own cleverness, and it’s mildly annoying b/c it’s not “white noise” enough for me to ignore it and read.

People’s work habits are terribly interesting sometimes …

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More Notes from the Underdog

Apparently, since I’m working on a couple books, Miss Gwennie JC thinks that she needs to take up the call, as well.  It would seem her muse is Celie/Alice Walker, as she’s chosen the ever-popular epistolary novel as her genre.  I came home from work today to find this on the office computer. Perhaps it’s less “novel” than “creative nonfiction”?

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Dear God,

I have always been a good girl. So can you explain to me why Mr. [her name for me, which is oddly just like The Color Purple, huh?] gotta hate so hard? What good girl you know has to carry her own poop in a bag around her neck?

Mr, Max, and I went for a walk and, if Mr is to be believed, I did not poop in the right place. Mr. was not amused. So when he put in the bag, he looked at me and said, “Why should I have to carry this around the rest of the walk?” and then attached it to my collar.  The whole rest of the walk, there go the bag, wrinkling noisily and popping me in the chest.

Good news is Max is scared to death of plastic bags of any kind, so as long as I wore it, he stayed two feet behind us on the walk where he belong. Course, since he’s always up to no good, maybe that’s not the best place for it after all.

Wonder if this happen again tomorrow? What’s a girl to do?

Gwennie

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Lily’s Big Girl Back-to-School Basket

Now that I write that, I think “Lily’s Big Girl Back-to-School Basket” sounds like the perfect name for a children’s picture book about the first day of school. Hmmm … inspiration, check! Soon as I finish the book on Max, I will have to write the one about Lily (and Isabelle, of course) …

My colleague and neighbor, Kirk, and his wife, Dori, have two of the most adorable daughters you’ll ever find anywhere on the face of the earth.  Well, it turns out Lily has started to school, and I made her a super-fabulous “back to school” basket, but have been unable to give it to her b/c I have been sick most of the week and that is not the gift I want to give her. So until I can get her the basket, a picture will have to do.

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Of course, Lily’s little sister, Isabelle, cannot be left out, so I thought she should get a very special “Isabelle’s Fun-at-Home Basket” … just cause she’s not old enough for school, that doesn’t mean she shouldn’t be recognized.

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If you’re lucky, perhaps Lily and Isabelle will invite you over to play with the things in their new baskets …

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Loving Melissa Etheridge

I have been on such a Melissa kick lately! Wow … I think she’s one of the best at the rock ballad, and my favorite is “You Can Sleep While I Drive”

You know Ive seen it before
This mist that covers your eyes
You’ve been looking for something
That’s not in your life
My intentions are true
Wont you take me with you
And baby you can sleep while I drive

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Battling the H1N1, Living in the Library

I mean, it may not really have been the H1N1 (“Swine”) Flu, but I felt like ass yesterday and I’m here to tell you, sleeping Tuesday from noon until 6:00 p.m. was fantastic!  I’m not a napper, so the fact that I slept during the day is proof positive, IMHO, that I was sick.  Head cold, fatigue, body aches … I think what I had was porcine in some way.  If not, whatever.  Next to patellar tendinitis (Nadal, Williams), swine flu is the hot thing to have these days.

By this morning, much better … working in the library and trying get ready for class tonight.

I’m rediscovering the library.  I wanted a faculty carrel this year to work on my books and a couple articles/conference presentations.  Turns out the year I want a carrel is the year the library decides that they’re going to reduce the faculty carrels to SIX, all already taken, of course.  SIX carrels for over 1,000 faculty? What is that? Apparently, faculty weren’t “using” them … well, then, take them away from the faculty who aren’t using them.  Others of us have been on waiting lists for years!  Ridiculous!

But I did manage to wrangle a graduate student carrel, which has locking drawers so that I can put things away and use the bathroom/get books without the fear of having all my things gone when I return. Thanks, Thomas, for helping me get that!!  Of course, I worked in the library on Monday and ended up with a very pained back — the chair was too low for the desk — but I have since remedied that by “borrowing” a better chair from a student study room. They’re mostly just sleeping in there anyway in the morning.

Now, sitting higher (and a bit mightier), I’m hard at work.  And before you judge, one needs a little blog writing to serve as “warm up” for the more creative/analytical juices to flow.

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Shaggin’ w/o Beach Music?

Someone is going to have to explain to me how I can be at the City Bistro for two hours of shag lessons + dance time, I never hear a single song I’d call “beach music” (and no, that is NOT anything by the Beach Boys or any song that would be featured in a movie staring Annette Funicello) …

Let me back up a step or two.  So Virginia and Dan are getting married next summer and they’ve decided they need to know how to do some sort of couples-dancing. I’d agree. Given Va’s family, she thought shaggin’ would be the right thing to learn.  I’d agree. City Bistro offers an hour of shag lessons for $3.00 cover at the door on Sundays for one hour, so that seems a good deal. I’d agree.

The best part of the night was watching Va and Tessa be groped by the silver foxes who were either teaching or on the prowl.

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When Dan and Faheem finally showed, they couldn’t get any love from all the cougars in the place, which is surprising given Dan’s characteristic charm with the older ladies, but the one teacher guy was more than happy to give “the boys” some times.  He refused to believe that I was sitting there judging everyone because I already knew how to shag; he was convinced that I was scared.  Oh, honey, Will Banks scared to dance? Has it ever been the case?  So I got up there with Dan and Faheem and it took just one turn at the six-count basic box step for teacher man to get that I was telling the truth.  Then, I helped Tessa get her step and turn down.  Good times.

I kept thinking we’d get some actual music to dance to rather than just counting out steps.  Such was not the case, sadly.  Once lesson time was over, I thought, now we’ll see something. We’ll get some Drifters or Tams or Swinging Medallions on the system and some of the old folks are going to cut a rug.  Not so much.  Turns out, the area elderly are more fond of line dances, particularly the “Cupid Shuffle” …

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Yes, it was as tragic and frightening as you think.  And since I’ve never once been gay enough to do a line dance, I stood back and continued to judge. I go with my strengths!

Truth be told, it was a fairly entertaining Sunday evening, but if we go back, I’m going to have to have a talk with the DJ.  For now, I’m thinking I need to cue my VHS copy of the Phoebe Cates-Bridget Fonda film Shag, and pull out a few songs from back in the day …

And that just makes me think of the fun songs we used to dance to down at McKinney’s Pond … so here’s a little beach music for those who don’t know what it is …

The Embers: “I Love Beach Music”

The Tams: “Be Young, Be Foolish, Be Happy”

The Tymes: “Miss Grace”

and The Swingin’ Medallions: “Double-Shot of My Baby’s Love”

Those songs take me back to some fun high school times … that probably makes me a super-dork, but still … we had some good times during the Beach Music Revival of the late 1980s.

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Ready for Fall

pumpkin_bundle_sq.jpgIt begins fairly slowly, the first morning walking the dogs and the humidity has been dialed back a bit, and even though it’s still in the mid-70s, you can feel that this 75 is different from the one you got at 6:00 a.m. a few weeks ago. And turning a corner, as you click the lock on the retractable leash, which provides all the instruction they’ll need to take off and perform their own morning rituals, you get just the faintest crisp-chill smell that says, unmistakably, “Autumn is coming …”

That is my favorite smell.  In “Miss Brill”, Katherine Mansfield describes the fuller seasoned incarnation of it like this: “when you opened your mouth there was just a faint chill, like a chill from a glass of iced water before you sip, and now and again a leaf came drifting – from nowhere, from the sky.”  The feeling of drier, somehow cleaner, air on your tongue, in your lungs, is the most welcomed relief from a hot, humid southern summer.

And every time I smell-taste the coming of fall, what I’m reminded of are the Fall Festivals of my youth, the carnivalesque events that my K-12 school would have each October, complete with a host of activities from (some years) carnival-type booths and games to a Kountry Kitchen filled with so many good dishes, tripled to fit in steam-table trays, and all coming from The Southern Stove, my school’s fund-raising cookbook. The best thing at the Kitchen? That’s a hard one, but perhaps the angel biscuits with country ham … or the pecan pie.  Maybe the pecan pie.  Probably the pecan pie. Certainly the pecan pie!

And those Fall Festivals were all the better because October also meant that the Lion’s Club would be hosting some form of traveling fair a the Lion’s Club fairgrounds on the edge of town. The Scrambler, tailor-made to induce lots of vomiting, was one of my favorites, a staple of the hastily-thrown-together-rides that carny-folk bring small-town children. And the Lion’s Club would be selling pancakes … at night … ummm …

When I went to college, so many of my friends and I would look forward each fall to the local fair going on, though we’d pretend to adopt a more mature ironic attraction to such kitsch events.  Something about those fall festivals and fairs seemed quaintly innocent and enjoyable, and as the air begins to turn — not one second too soon, if you ask me — even though this morning’s turn is really just a trick, a tease that won’t happen again for a month at least, and even then will be just a second tease until we’re well into October — I’m thinking happily of better dog-walking and biking weather, tailgating Pirate football games (Purple!!! Gold!!!), a hunt for the Great Pumpkin, and watching Jackson turn two.  There’s a good fall coming …

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